Rule #5: Talk in terms of the others mans interest.
When you want people to get to like you, it is helpful to talk about the other persons interest. This is a good thing to do because you will see what that person is all about. Getting to know the person your talking to is important cause then you will be able to see their perspective on everything. It is normal to have disagreements but, it is always good to not go against the other persons perspective. If your getting a person to like you as a friend, then make sure that they are comfortable talking about what their passionate about or something their dealing with. When talking about another mans interest, you yourself will learn more about the person and also the subject in which you are talking about. When talking to others, make sure you are a good listener and listen in depth to what their saying. In that way you will understand them more. When your getting to know a person find out what their interested in. Also find out what they don't like and what they do like. In this way you will be able to bring up a conversation with no problem.
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